Building The Perfect Guy
May 25, 2012     

(This note may SEEM like it's for girls only but guys should continue reading...it might be useful information).

Imagine if you could build the perfect boyfriend by combining different traits of different guys and putting them all in one, perfect guy. Seems like the perfect idea, doesn't it? Well, this isn't physically possible because well.. yeah it just isn't. But, we can have an idea of what your perfect boyfriend might look like if you visualize it. Here is how it works: the list below is a list of customizable features (categories) that you assign to a guy. You're allowed to use more than one guy for multiple categories but no more than one guy in each category. You can leave only one category blank. Here is the list of categories:

1. Sense of humour
2. Body type (height, muscles)
3. Facial features
4. Personal attire (the way they dress)
5. Future ambitions (or strength of ambition)
6. Values (honesty, religion, family-oriented, etc.)
7. Personality (the whole personality, not parts)
8. Strengths + attributes (i.e. intelligence, creativity, athleticism, etc.)
9. Interests (sports, arts, computers, etc.)
10. Wealth

Here is an example of how it works: (using random names)

1. Bob's sense of humour
2. John's height
3. Mike's facial structure
4. David's taste in fashion
5. John's ambition
6. Peter's values
7. Harold's personality
8. Greg's intelligence
9. Brian's interest in arts
10. Mike's wealth

Notice how a guy's name can be used more than once for each category, but each category can only have one guy's name. Putting all these qualities together forms the perfect the guy. Now it's your turn to make your list. When your list is finished, please continue reading.

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Okay, now that you've finished your list. Paint a picture in your head of what that guy would look like, act like, dress like, etc.....Perfect, isn't it? Well, sorry to burst any bubbles or ruin the party but this guy can only exist in your mind. Different people have different aspects of which category is more important. For example, Sue (random girl I made up) may think that wealth is more important than facial features or that Jess thinks that values are ranked highest above all other categories. It is all up to the person's own liking. However, do know that ANY one of those categories of a guy can change --- all but values and personality. Think about it:

1. Sense of humour can change
2. Body type - height (not so much you can change after your bones fuse but muscles can always be gained by working out)
3. Facial features - everyone looks uglier (no offense) when they get older, no one stays young forever
4. Personal Attire - easily interchangeable
5. Future ambitions - can definitely change
6. Values - A bit harder to change once you've grown accustomed to your own values)
7. Personality - people say people can change, but people don't really change... you are who you are, and no one can say otherwise
8. Strengths - you can be good at something as long as you put your mind to it and practice
9. Interests - people can change what they like/dislike all the time
10. Wealth - can go up or go down

Conclusion
It is all up to the girl (or guy) to decide which category is most important to them. For some it might be wealth, others it might be values. But know that all of these categories about a guy can change --- all but a guy's values and personality. Of course the other things matter too, like if they have no future ambitions, then that really is a problem. It's a balance of qualities really... in the end, it's all up to you to decide what's more important, so choose wisely!

Disclaimer - I'll write a disclaimer in the next post!

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